Welcome to my blog! Like most times I try and write diaries, emails and all things which require words on paper, I get really in to it for about a day and then I lose interest... this time I hope it will be different...

You can help by leaving me comments on things I write.. If I know you've been reading that will give me motivation to keep writing :)Not sure what it will say, thoughts of the moment, things I've been doing perhaps, but most of all its my life in New York, my NY second, so hop on board for the ride :)

Friday, November 21, 2008

The Whirlwind Week

The Frydmans have taken New York by storm! yes thats right, mum and georgie are in town and we have been hitting the streets to take in every tourist gimmick on offer... the holiday started a little rocky.... yes georgia realised at 2am in the morning that the suitcase she bought home from the airport was not infact hers and was some other poor lady's.... but soon rectified the next morning we headed up to central park to see the last of the autumn leaves and a much needed Zabar's soup to warm up... yes the chill has arrived. it is bloody freezing. so cold.

After our day of frolicking in the leaves I was back at work and they boarded the red tourist buses for about 2 days taking in all the city sites... in true Frydman style they secured two free tickets on a water taxi tour on the hudson passing the lady and checking out the bridges... I've been catching up with them each night after work and showing them the real new york... we've seen my friend dani singing in a bar in brooklyn, had pizza from frankies, seen the ice hockey, enjoyed street meat, seen the rockettes in the christmas spectacular at radio city (recommended to all), hit Macy's and the lovely shops in Soho and its only been 4 days! Today they are museum hopping and tonight we are going Ice Skating at Rockerfeller Plaza... then I'm on holidays for the next week and a half... very exciting.. we are off to boston for a while and then back to celebrate Thanksgiving at the parade followed by an evening with Tina Turner.

Hope all is well in your neck of the woods... we'll keep you updated on the Frydman girls adventures!

xx.

Friday, November 7, 2008

Obamarama - Yes He Can!

ok ok here it is.. the election post!

For 2 years America has been debating who should be there next president, and on Tuesday 4th of November, 2008 they spoke.. and made history! In their very passionate way, the streets of New York in the past couple of months have become flooded with pro Obama paraphenalia, from badges to mugs to hats and tshirts. There are posters of him all over the walls, unique grafitti in his honour, its almost like he is the messiah! Being such a democratic state where the majority are pro-Obama it is often difficult to get an equal understanding of what both sides are for... moreso on election day it is hard to fathom that there are people out there who aren't voting for Obama!

So election day started and the queues started forming down the streets... some people stood in lines for 2 hours before spending 30 seconds voting... thats one thing americans are good at.. standing in lines.. they love a good queue!

A few things confuse me about the american voting system.. first of all its not compulsory, so a lot of advertising and general chit chat is about whether you are voting or not, and not who you are voting for! I thought that was weird... then each state gets one vote for either candidate based on the majority of the votes from the people in that state. If the vote is only for president and not for seats in a senate then why isnt it 1 vote per person!? Thirdly, different voting places are open different hours, like some are opened more hours then others... im not sure what this impacts but it doesnt sound right... then they start counting and presenting votes on the tv before some polling booths have closed... another oddity... and finally... they predict who is going to win and announce it on TV before all the votes have been counted.. anyway its America, and thats just the way it is I guess!

So I spent the day at work, and spoke about the election which only 3 out of the 15 people in my office actually voted in! I find people who cant vote have a lot more opinions then those that can... Anyway after work I headed to an Election Party in a bar in Chelsea and watched anxiously at the big screen as the little states on the screen coloured in blue and red... it was a Jewish function and it was interesting to chat to people about there thoughts on the election.. suprisingly a lot of them voted McCain.. my superficial interpretation of this is because Obama wants to tax higher income earners more then they currently are being taxed and all the rich Jewish kids don't like that... again dont take my word for it just my analysis...
so as our eyes flicked from CNN to Fox News and back again, anxiousness growing at the discrepency of the numbers between each channel.. even though it was evident from early on Obama was winning in a landslide.. as he knocked over key republican states excitement grew, and all worries gone when McCain conceded in what I thought to be fairly early on in the race.. but he gave a good concession speech, probably the best speech his made all campaign... Then came Barack, the Might O... gave a wonderful speech everyone was cheering (except of course the McCain supporters...), and he has the cutest family, and he promised them a puppy in the whitehouse!!! how amazing for those kids.. the youngest so far to live in the whitehouse.. anyway we left the pub and headed home...

Jumping out of the taxi in my street i started seeing heaps of people gathering around and then all of the sudden the street at 1st Avenue and St Marks Place (my corner..) was packed full of people cheering and dancing, screaming out YES HE CAN... there goes the passionate americans again... it was crazy.. flags waving, bongos playing, heck (like my americanism) some guy was banging on his saucepan with a spoon!!! the entire intersection of quite a major road was full of people dancing.. cars couldnt get through, buses tried to inch their way without running anyone over...and then one guy jumped on the roof of the bus and starting running up and down it! ridiculous... at that point i headed up to my apartment and kept watching from my window.. it was so noisy and there was going to be no way i was going to get any sleep, so i went back down! made friends with people on the sidewalk and watched as throngs of police ran up and down the street trying to clear the road...eventually they succeeded and i went to bed..here are some pics.

The next day my friend had tickets to go and see The View. It is a panel of 5 famous women who chat for an hour about anything topical, have guests, give things away (unfortunately not cars...) and generally enertain the audience for 60 minutes... of course the hot topic was the election...the most poignant part of the whole show was when the black presenter (i think she is a famous comedian) broke down in tears as she told the story how she sat down next to her young son the night before and told him that the sky is the limit, he can now do whatever he wants with life... and this time she knew it was for real because tonight the USA had elected a black president...touching.

Since election day, the past week the country has been waking up and beginning to face reality and realise that they had actually elected a black president... and slowly slowly it began to sink in what that actually meant... the papaers wrote about martin luther king, the tv's blarred on about how today black and white are equal, and in schools black kids are running around now aspiring to be president of the USA... it is an exciting time for the country, one which noone knows what will happen, except the fact that they now have there first black president who won the election over a white man with overwhelming support, admiration and hope from his people.

lets see what he delivers.

A few interesting facts...Obama is not 100% black.. his mother was white... but the press kind of ignore that... and just on an ending note... America now has a Hawaiian President... bring on the luau...

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Making a difference

In a city where where everyone is go go go, thinking about themselves, how they can make their next dollar and buy that fur coat in the prada window, few stop to think about those that have it a bit harder then them... yesterday I did my first volunteering project with New York Cares. People living in the city always talk about how they are so busy, and have so many social arrangements and things to do and cant find a spare second to themselves, well this weekend I made the time,... I spent 3 hours of my Saturday with 20 volunteers helping out an organisation called KEEN. It is a free service run by volunteers for families with kids with disabilities. We spent 2 hours with about 20 kids with disabilities ranging from autism to cerebal palsy. We ran around, did some bowling, skidded on scooters, played basketball, had wheelchair races, danced to music and my favourite the parachute! The kids had an awesome time and their parents got 2 hours to themselves to do what most of us take for granted all day every day, spent time for themselves doing what they wanted, a few hours of respite from their 24 hour a day carer role. It was fulfilling knowing i made some kind of difference in someones life.. looking forward to future volunteering projects as I make the time over the next few months.

Of course I did spend some time over indulging myself this weekend... Halloween! absolutely manic... i felt like manhattan turned in to dress up night on school camp! The streets were packed with people in costume just having a great time.. I saw many batmans and spidermans, tin men, a woopee cushion, a rubiks cube, pirates, loads of fairies and devils and vampires and so much more! I headed with some friends to the halloween parade, think the mardi gras times one thousand... loads of people in costume marching down 6th avenue and hundreds more lining the streets to watch.. the most amazing part I thought was the float with over 300 'dead' zombies doing the michael jackson thriller dance... was soo funny, and so well done! I dressed up a little, I looked kinda scary... after the parade we headed indoors for some warmth, red wine and pizza... the funniest part of halloween was the next morning when I was on the train at 11am and saw people still dressed up on their way home... sharing my carriage was a guy in a straight jacket, splatted all over with fake blood, brandishing a hacksaw... only in new york. I took a few pics, not to many cos it is hard in the dark, you can see them here.

the weekend continued to get better with a great night out celebrating jenny and ross's birthdays at a bar in my street, (got to love that!) and quite a night of celebration it was... today was also lovely.. headed uptown to watch the new york marathon with some aussie friends, cheered on those in the green and gold, and then headed to the famous carnegie deli for an obligatory pastrami on rye... and now im suffering because of it....

just a regular weekend in this amazing city!

With the elections on this week its sure to be a ripper... stay tuned!

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

36 hours in the city of the free...

So I spent the last weekend on a last minute trip down to Washington with a friend, Debbie, who is moving back to Sydney. We had a great time, I got to see New York at a different hour, 5am.. as we made our way to the train station. We had our customary cream cheese bagels in hand and we claimed our double seats on the train, fell asleep, and in what seemed to be 5 minutes we arrived in Washington... with such minimal time we aimed to pack in as much as we could.. we went from the holocaust museum (which was awesome) (note use of american word 'awesome'... what is happening to me!!) to arlington cemetery, saw the grave of JFK and a few other hundred thousand soldier graves, saw the changing of the guard at the unknown soldiers tomb, and saw a horse drawn carriage with a hearse... got some great pics of washington from high on a hill, and then headed back downtown. In the afternoon we headed to the Air and Space Museum for an hour, hoping to get some more great shots climbing amongst some aircraft... sadly not much to climb on but was fun nonetheless.

Being the nations capital all the museums/galleries/memorials are free of charge. You can literally pack in as many museums as possible into a day and not pay a cent... comes in handy when you travel with someone who needs the bathroom every five seconds :P

The city remimded me a lot of canberra, just with more stone columns and more buildings... the city shines of marble and stone, and is dotted with museums and memorials, with each one better then the next. In a city which looks so pristine it is hard to imagine it also has one of the country's highest poverty rates. Too busy showing itself off it forgets to look after its own.. sad.

There's not much to be said about the taxi drivers in DC either... of the 4 we got in to the first one didnt know where Arlington Cemetery was (its like one of the biggest tourist destinations in the city!!!) and later in the afternoon the taxi we were in broke down, he made me pay for the ride and then made Deb and I help him push the taxi! I pushed a car!!!! crazy.

Friday night one of Deb's work acquaintances ( a 60 year old father of a few... but young at heart) picked us up and took us on a night tour of the city. He took us to the white house and capitol hill, was great all lit up and with noone else around we were able to get some great pics. We also headed to Georgetown which is the suburb of the DC university, it was a fun area with a great vibe, we then headed back to the area around our hotel (the Grand Hyatt no less.. ) went to a local bar, heard a sob story from our waitress about how her ex-husband used to beat her (shes only 21...) and we grabbed a drink and pizza.... And that was Friday!

Yet to come was Saturday!!! Saturday we went on a bus tour around all the monuments and memorials, it was really interesting and I learnt a heap of American history which was great too... Saturday afternoon, we visited more bathrooms and went to the Natural History Museum which was fun. They had a live butterfly breeding room where you got to go through and if you were as lucky as Deb you got a giant butterfly landing on your nose! Despite the 90 degree heat in the atrium it was incredible to be in their habitat. After making sure we hadn't picked up any 'hitchhiking' butterflies as the lady called them, we left the museum and headed to a sculpture garden next to one of the art museums. Took numerous silly photo shots, got in trouble from a mean lady for touching the sculptures, and then collapsed in the middle of the park for some much needed rest before heading back to our hotel, grabbing a bite to eat and boarded the bus back to the NYC!

We had a great weekend as you can see... well read... and with only the two of us traveling together and so much to see and photograph we made it our mission to take some arty photography... with debs trusty purple bag as our tripod, and the handy-ness of self timer we think we did pretty well! Check them out here: Album 1 and Album 2

Sunday, October 5, 2008

Shana Tova

As 5769 rolls in and a new Jewish year begins, I find myself in a new country with new experiences and a challenging but exciting year ahead.. who knows what will happen to any of us, but lets hope it is all full of good, character building and enjoyable occasions.

My year started with a great dinner at Jeremy and Nicola's, with Tim, Tali and Lex we ate apple, honey, and other new year mandatories and it felt strangely familiar. Very different to the same family rosh hashana I have had for the past 28 years in sydney but still got the same 'friday night fullness' that I think comes with any jewish meal where ever in the world you are. It was a fun night and lucky for me I had to only walk a few steps (about 25 to be exact...) to get home afterwards :) Unfortunately I didnt get to shule, but i did feel guilty as i walked past a few synagogues on the way to work.

So as part of my new year excitement I have signed up to two new ventures, one personal and one communal... the personal one is that I joined a gym this week.. it was expensive, as things are in this city, but with the winter coming i need to keep fit! and if I cant do it outside, the gym it is... I've been to a couple already and i can spin like nothing else.. so we'll see how long the enthusiasm continues.. they have some really good classes so it should be a lot of fun!

piece of trivia: my flatmate saw renee zelwegger running on the treadmill in big black sunglasses at my gym! so if my fitness doesnt get any better at least my star spotting might (i am still on nil!!)

So the second thing i have started is volunteering. I have joined an organisation called New York Cares. Lots of Americans volunteer to help out in a range of different activities across the city everyday of the week. The activities range from pruning gardens to playing bingo in old peoples homes, helping disabled kids play sport to feeding the homeless. I have to go to an orientation this week, and in a couple of saturdays time i am volunteering at New York Cares Day, a day dedicated to painting murals at schools around the city... I don't know where the urge I have to give in this city is coming from, maybe its to do with all the homeless people i see and begars that i get acosted by on the street and train everyday...im excited to do it so I'll keep you posted with how it goes!

Until next entry... cheers!

Saturday, September 27, 2008

these shoes are made for walking

on coming to New York someone said to me 'you have never seen so many shoe stores in your life! you see one massive store, and then another and another, all lined up to the ceilings with shoes'... well its true, but not only that, they all have a roaring trade... and now I can see why... in a city where everyone walks everywhere, you go through shoes like no tomorrow... there is no 'wearing in a shoe', if you get a blister, chuck them... the uneven pavement and cobblestone streets are enough to eat up any jimmy choo heel... that's wear the clever new york woman's mind comes in to play... every girl's handbag has the essential item of a pair of flats... mandatory for anyone without a limo taking you door to door... the flats are for walking in the street, then once inside the flats are swapped for heels and the flats make their way into your handbag... two pairs of shoes for every journey..

as a walker to work, i too carry multiple shoes with me.. underneath my desk at work resembles a small shoe store in itself, as i wear my thongs (aka flip flops) to work, and swap to heels whilst inside... this week i went shoe shopping, and very maturely shopped for shoes depending on their soles rather then what they looked like!

so I was in macy's looking at shoes, and I had a pair in my hand I wanted to try on, instead of queuing up and asking for the size, a lady approached me to help me (yes this is service city...) I told her what size and she pulled out this little electronic device, scanned the bar code on my shoe, offered me it in different colours, told me what sizes she had left in the storeroom, took my name, and said they'll be with you in a minute if youd like to keep browsing, and that was that, she went on to the next lady, and in a few minutes someone had brought me not only the pair I asked for, but a size larger and a size smaller just in case!!! this city has it sorted... love it.

I got a few nice pairs for indoors and a great pair of rain boots for outdoors! Rain boots are THE accessory, stripe ones, spotty ones, marc jacobs ones, burberry ones, red ones, pink ones, flowery ones, you name it you can get it on your rain boots! me, I just stuck to black... but I love them! bring on the snow!! i feel like a kid again, it was raining this week so i wore them to work, (and of course changed when i got there!) it was great....walked straight through flooded streets, wasn't afraid of soggy toes!!!

as a side note... the biggest Australian import into New York has to be the ugg boot! every shoe store stocks aussie ugg boots, I havent even seen this many ugg boots in australia... they go crazy for them here!!!... looking for a new job? export ugg boots!

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

its not how you play the game, its if you win or lose...

.... and unfortunately we lost...

...but we played well :) This weekend gone I ventured up to Connecticut for a netball tournament.. everyone I tell kind of laughs at me and then says 'what did you say?'... as you would imagine if Americans don't play it or know what it is, it can hardly be a real sport (even though wikipedia says the game was invented in the States!) Anyway just to backtrack a little... as I've been playing forever, I thought I would see if I could find anyone in the city who plays netball, I found 1 club in New York, Manhattan International Netball Club. There's about 50 girls in total and we train every week, most of the girls are English or Australian and its been great meeting new people and getting some exercise... As its such an unknown sport here, there is no local competition, instead there are day tournaments around the country which teams are invited to play in... We entered two teams in the connecticut one so I went up to play...

Myself and a friend of mine thought we'd make a weekend of it so we attempted to get up there on Friday night... squashed in a little mini van the 2 hour journey up took us 4 and a half hours, leaving manhattan on a friday afternoon coupled with lots of rain i guess just made it a part of the adventure! We met some quirky types on the bus, and got some tips of where to go so it wasnt all bad...

We stayed in the Marriott in Hartford, which is the capital of Connecticut... (not the marriott but you get it...)... lovely hotel, bit of a boring town. Hartford is where a part of the Gilmore Girls is set... the grandparents live there!... It is also known as the insurance capital of America so as you can imagine its not the most pumping place on a Friday night.. regardless we had some dinner and walked around the deserted streets a little and then had an early one before the big day..

Saturday morning we attempted to get a bus except I took us to the wrong bus station (..oops..) worried we would be late we jumped in a cab to get there in time.. the ride through suburban hartford was lovely, seeing all the weatherboard houses was just like in the movies... real America!! So we arrived on time to Weaver High School (the Home of the Beavers is there tagline.. no joke!)... we'd been warned on the bus up that the school was known as the ghetto so we were a little weary... especially cos there was noone in sight and there we were two little white girls wondering around a huge American highschool... we bumped in to a caretaker who took us to a room full of kids who were writing their SAT's or on detention ... still trying to work it out... anyway eventually he led us to the gym.. it was empty, it was 9am and noone was there!!! At that time I didnt really mind, I was still in awe about being in a real American highschool gym! I was waiting for the girls from Bring it On, or Coach Carter to come out, but no...noone came... by 9:30 the rest of our club had arrived and a few of the organisers were straggling in... anyway two hours later we finally got to play... most of the teams were made up of jamaicans and other island countries (call me ignorant... i dont know where they were from) but until saturday i was convinced netball was a non-contact sport! well not over here... i think everyone in my team left with at least one bruise on their body as a souveneir... if you were lucky it was on your face! Anyway we played 5 games, our best result was a draw, the other team did a little better, but it was good excercise and another experience to add to the list! Saturday night we ached all over so took it easy and went to West Hartford, nicer then the real hartford we found a restaraunt serving great steaks and filled our appetites!

Sunday we decided to stop by New Haven, another Connecticut town and home to Yale, one of the three Ivy League US colleges (what college you study at is a massive deal here and Yale is one of the best... story for another time). With all our heavy luggage and our bodies still aching there was no way were going to shlep it around all day...so we casually strolled in to a classy hotel nearby, asked if we could leave our luggage there... they thought we were staying at the hotel so they said 'sure', took it off our backs and put it in there luggage room! that little trick was my favourite part of the day!!

So we ventured out to find Yale, the town was again beautiful, all the weatherboard houses! I wanted to go inside and see if they were as beautiful as in Father of the Bride, but i refrained and ventured into school territory... Yale was beautiful... massive stone carved buildings... huge green parks, flags, the whole bit... hard to explain but I'll post some pictures soon! We ventured in to the gym and stumbled in to the Yale basketball arena... i dont think we were supposed to be in there but we climbed down the bleachers (like in the movies :) ) and took some photos in the middle of the court... we then bought a Yale sweater each and moved on to some lunch at Pepe's pizza, apparently the best pizza in town... im no connoisseur but it was pretty good...

So the day came to an end, we went back and collected our luggage from our faux stay in the pretty hotel and trained back to New York... back on the subways and through the streets of the East Village, there was something nice about coming back... kinda like the feeling you get driving through the Rushcutters Bay tunnel... ahhh home.... :)